Humiliation is the feeling of being put down, made to feel less than one feels oneself to be. It can be brought about through bullying, intimidation, physical or mental mistreatment or by embarrassment.
Feeling of humiliation can be turned inward which result in apathy and depression and when turned outward can give rise to paranoia and fantasies of revenge. Not all acts of humiliation are intentional. They can be committed quite accidentally. Sometimes can arise simply because of misunderstanding.
I was humiliated in front of a crowd of people on 11 August 2010. I felt I have nowhere to turn to and at that juncture of time, I wanted just to walk away. However, I have to maintain my cool and took things in my own stride. Deep down inside me, I felt the fury and kept telling myself why I have had to go through such an ordeal when in the first place, I have done my level best to preempt the other party of the consequences. Given a chance, I would have prefer the choice of action which I have taken steps to inform. The other party did not adhere to it resulting in the public humiliation which should not be called for in the first place. I hope I will not have to go through such an unpleasant situation, moving forward.
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